Bullshit, Michael. You don't have to submit to anything. You don't have to dress or behave to appease idiots or the lowest common denominator or what-have-you. All you have to know is what you're getting yourself into by going against the grain. I'm all for going against the grain and pissing people off for no good reason -- but I don't have the nerve to react with shock when people respond the way I damn well knew or should've known they would when I dress or behave a certain way. That simple.